Sticking the landing


This Month

I moved myself in, moved L in, started him in 3rd grade, started myself in 19th grade (OUCH lol), got my Ohio driver's license, tags, and registration, signed up for library cards, found my critical mass of 5-6 local mom friends from a delightful spectrum of past life stages, cooked a bunch of tasty food, started working on one of my book projects again, hiked and paddleboarded and found fossils, and went to Meijer, Costco, and Trader Joe's more times than strictly necessary.

I am happier than I can remember being in my adult life.

Here's a line I'm proud of that I wrote this week in draft 2 of Just One Date:

They stood facing each other in the doorway, neither able to move forward without the other stepping aside.

That is all.

RFS (Request for Suggestions)

Do I keep writing this newsletter? I have accepted that getting a query-able manuscript and biking 36 miles are not happening this year, and frankly I'm totally fine with that because I've gotten everything else I wanted. (See above.) Does anyone want to just hear me yap about my life, or is that what Instagram is for? Let me know what you think!

What I'm Reading

Let's be friends on Storygraph, the non-Amazon version of Goodreads that comes WITH CHARTS ABOUT BOOKS!

I forgot to yell about Throwback by Maurene Goo, who always puts out YA bangers but this one had a depth that I feel like her previous books haven't reached. Freaky Friday mother-daughter homecoming queen story if you're into that sort of thing.

I read The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down for school. It's about a Hmong child with intractable epilepsy in the late 1980s and the conflicting beliefs and practices of her family and the doctors trying to treat her. Not a light read but an enlightening one.

The Library of Borrowed Hearts is exactly the type of "falling in love through notes written in the pages of a book" plus found family plus just the right amount of grumpy sunshine romance that isn't just a romance book that I like. The writing wasn't the best but I do not care lol.

Now I am reading The Surprising Power of a Good Dumpling and realizing that I truly just need to figure out how to write cute lower-stakes YA and my publishing career would be set.

Acknowledgements

I'm drafting the acknowledgements section of my book little by little every week.

Thank you especially to Claire who unpacked my business casual wardrobe and picked up Trader Joe's for me on my first day here and is the fun-sized little sister I now have.

Jennifer Duann

Parent, grad student, writer. I write stories about Asian American women, their parents, and their children.

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